I got really frustrated as well and gave it up after a few days.
Then I started reading.
A LOT.
Then I essentially started over. Two weeks later, I'm flying a Imperial Cutter, maxing it out by mining, and opening up all the engineers as I go. (I've got 5 so far and after this mornings mining run I'll open the 6th.)
I'm building a full combat Krait Mk II in the background between trips. Already have level 3 engineered gatling guns, FSD at level 4, sensors at 2. It's a work in progress.
You have to learn your limitations. I did it by reading and figuring out that diving into combat is NOT something you want to do.
My advice: Get yourself a Asp Explorer. That ship is fantastic. It has the best cockpit view in the game. Equip it to do transportation missions and get after it. At first, make sure you set the mission filter to LEGAL only. That will keep you out of trouble.
Then enjoy flying around the galaxy taking people on site seeing tours, delivering people to a destination, etc. That will get you used to the game and it's actually sort of relaxing to do.
Before you know it, you'll have a good deal of money. Then you can look into getting yourself a Python and outfitting it for mining. That's when you start to make what you think are big bucks. It goes pretty quickly after that. Find yourself a good Platinum hot spot and mine the fool out of it. You'll rake in around 35 million per trip.
Then you can plan what you'll do next. For me, it was get the Imperial Cutter as the ultimate mining machine. That is done now. Next is maxing that ship out (I only lack the A rated boosters but they alone cost 150 million) and engineering it while building my combat Krait as I go.
There's a
LOT to this game. I mean
TONS. Yes, it is hard and makes you want to quit. (Hell, I did the same exact thing you did.)
Trust me: just start reading. You'll figure it out. Now I sit down at the computer and play for 10 minutes...or what feels like 10 minutes...only to find I was in game for three hours. It's that good.
I've done all of this in exactly 208 hours of game time as of this posting.
EDIT TO ADD:
Here's where I gave it up on April 17th:
https://forums.frontier.co.uk/threads/the-npc-attacks-are-absolutely-stupid.602396/
Here's where I came back on May 4th:
https://forums.frontier.co.uk/threa...other-try-and-now-im-having-a-problem.603045/
And here's what I'm flying now.
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