With gamers everything is the worst thing ever. I was at the release of ED, EDH, NMS, X:R and X4, and each was hailed as the Greatest Doom Ever. Personally my awards would go to either NMS (literally could not be launched with min specs due to last minute changes in OpenGL requirements), those who were able to play found a game with major features explicitly confirmed days earlier wholly missing. Or X:R (games would inevitably suffer a total economic crash and shutdown within the hour, devs took over a year to fix it and asked us to hexedit our saves periodically in the meantime).
EDO has its issues for sure. But I can actually play it with a system vastky below min specs, and the game itself pretty much just works. Performance issues? Sure. Graphical oddities? Sure. Minor bugs? Sure. But by and large you can play it and it works, which already means it is not in the same category as some of the above 'competitors'.
And as some as the old timers here know, we had earlier patches that were in a sense worse. We learned for a reason not to use our main ships on day1. Back when 'minor collission is instant death' bug was released, or the 'enjoy these NPCs with rail beams resultng in instant death'. We had a complete refund of every single insurance claim no matter what even. Compared to that EDO isnt even the worst ED patch as you can quite safely play your main account.
FD has its work cut out, but lets keep some perspective and not be Comic Book Guy here.