Thank you DhuAlan. I appreciate this calmer assessment.
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All that said, I think Frontier are not being nasty. They are not EA-level evil. They are being quite "British" about all this, and seem a little innocent about PR and community relations. Sometimes it's charming, some times frustrating. What I'm absolutely sure of is that they don't deserve the venom and accusations hurled at them, and that many over there have been shocked and hurt at what the recent reactions have been.
TL: DR once again. DhuAlan. I would personally hope that you stay. Play solo, and maybe you'll even occasionally feel like meeting some people. In general I find the playerbase quite cool so far.
I don't disagree with any of your 3 points as a software developer of 16 years for a small firm, I am not blind to these difficulties and the especially where a higher ups are shall we say too enthusiastic vs the realities.
It is a cash driven decision, business always is. It has been considered to be not worth the expense to the business.
But businesses should not over promise and under deliver more so when they are accepting the public's money in advance. They may not of intentional gone out to mislead but that is the result.
I do say that the coders, artists and sound engineers have created a truly beautiful work. But even the thought of starting up the client is bringing a mix of nausea and rage. This whole thing they way it has been handled has kind of wrecked my fondest childhood gaming memories.
I'm not completely adverse to online multi-player gaming, played and enjoyed EvE online for many years. Some games I enjoy a more shall we say personal and enclosed rather than anti-social experience as the gated experience can be shared and enjoyed through conversation with others.
With the newsletter and the terms of service being as they are I may have no option but to keep it, not sure I'll ever be able to enjoy it again as I'd started too.