couldn't I just log out and go play in solo mode for an hour to avoid dying?
You could also log out, go do any number of things, then log back in an hour or a day later to avoid combat with a specific stalker.
For some reason some people are really bothered about what other people do when they log out of online, especially if it's playing in solo mode.
I have realised there is more than one other player in the game and figure I would rather engage in mutually enjoyable activities than 'upset' someone else by forcing them to engage with me.
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Isn't human nature wonderful!