I disagree with you about attitudes. I think users have a right to express their feelings about ED. FDev gave us that mandate by telling us the game should still be viewed as early access and user feedback would shape the game going forward.
Like many folks here, I have invested a substantial amount of money (not credits!) in my setup to play ED in VR. Voice Attack is great and really brings another level of immersion to ED, but when it is required to plug gaps in a AAA game then I think FDev should be listening and responding with something better than 'it's a bit too much work'
People need to get their facts right and they are wrong to believe that a VR keyboard is a) easy to do or b) the responsibility of the game developer.