Lineage 2 was my first (and the only) MMO I played and it had hundreds of players together. I NEVER missed my friends in it, I didn't even know that there is a thing like instance. Never had to tinker around with re-logins, IP issues or any other limitations in the online game together with masses of friends. A castle siege was always a major event with hundreds of players on both sides - for everyone together at the same time and same place.
So that's how I may be illiterate in regards to how multiplayer games are organized nowadays.
ED is far from being an MMO. I wish it would be one because all the info I got about it triggered my L2-experience and without deeper knowledge about the topic I expected it to be an MMO. Maybe one day if the devs have the same initiative.
But that's ok as it is right now as I enjoy flying around in this beautifully constructed universe. I see where a real potential lies in this question and know how better gaming experience it could give but as I'm not a coder and can not contribute anything to it other than playing it I'm alright. And again: ED is not finised in this stage so I can wait for more features with the excitement of a child