TL;DR: Is there a place in E

, or a playstyle, where I can give up more lucrative reward, in exchange for a safer, calmer, low-risk gaming experience?
Longer version: I'm a lousy gamer. Poor reflexes, low tolerance for twitchier combat and challenges. I'm also pretty casual, playing any games only a few hours a week, so I'm not likely to put the time in to get much better. What I was hoping for in E

(picked up E

H right before release) is a game where I can just putz around, avoid combat, explore, craft, upgrade, etc. I played a lot of Runescape back in the day, doing mostly gathering and crafting; I've played a lot of GW2 recently, mostly in the starter areas, gathering and crafting and playing Barbie.
But having played for maybe 10 hours of E

, figuring out how to dock, travel between systems, do simple missions off the BB, etc., I get interdicted and killed with annoying regularity. This is either in Private play, or playing with Mobius, so I'm fairly certain that it's just NPCs that I'm up against. I am *not* saying there's *anything* wrong with E

's combat; I've watched enough vids and streams, that I'm certain that the problem here is just me.
So yeah, I could just stick with a starter ship and fly around and try to not let it bother me when I die, but I'd rather find a place or playstyle that will let me stay safe, but yet progress at *something*. I'd like to try my hand at exploring, but what little I've done, I've lost 2/3 of it w/o selling, because of getting killed before going enough LY to sell. I'd consider mining, but I keep hearing that that's one of the *more* dangerous activities out there. I got myself a SRV and landed (somewhere, I forget where), but in an hour of wandering around, found absolutely nothing, resource-wise, to collect.
Any ideas? Or is E

just not my game?
Thanks,
Mannie