I think it's not about attacking from either side.
Personally I just feel it's strange there are so many people claiming that VR is the only thing they play Elite for and without it they can't find a single thing to keep them interested. That's... sad.
I don't really feel a difference between playing in VR and on the monitor. When I'm out exploring, I play on the monitor (having to work with the map and taking screenshots). Combat also on a monitor so I don't get sick.

The rest of the activities I play either on the monitor or in VR, depending on mood, but in either case I enjoy the GAME, not the displaying device. :|
Well, there have been (IMO obviously) some pretty mean spirited posts considering that something that has been a pretty core part of the game for those who use it - and as I said boasted about by FD, first AAA game to support VR, blah, blah - is looking very likely to be discontinued going forward. Many of us would be quite happy to forego the FPS experience in VR if we could still continue to fly our ships and drive our SRV's in VR on the planets included with Odyssey. Not speaking for everybody, obviously.

And sure, we don't know, but I simply don't believe it's what FD want to do. A hundred plus people working for over two years and not planning on even having the same level of VR support that exists now in the new release? Hmmm.
I don't really want to come across as sounding 'down' on the game. I've played since late 2014 when it was in beta, but for me at least, I cannot say that the content that's been released since Horizons has truly been enough to keep me that interested, so it's much more
how I play the game that gives me a motivation to log in. Of course, there's content that they released that simply doesn't interest me, mainly Powerplay, but I've engaged in most areas of the game to some degree or another. I'm triple elite, have over 10 billion credits, have engineered nearly 30 ships, unlocked the guardian FSD booster, destroyed some Thargoids...
I set myself goals and challenges very willingly, happy to figure out a way to destroy elite pirate lords in small ships and don't consider that to be handicapping myself. But honestly, after this time in the game I cannot help but find the gameplay (particularly mission based) to be repetitive and predictable. Every pirate lord is a Federal Corvette, every delivery mission the opposition four Anacondas, one after another - if they turn up at all, every planetary scan job the same searching routine and then one of just two bases to scan.
So yes, for me, playing in VR gives me the 'immersion' I need to log in and fly one of my spaceships for a while, and I guess that I'll probably keep doing that in Horizons despite having an LEP, because that's why I play this game, to fly spaceships, something that I just cannot seem to be able to do anywhere else.

Oh, I'll hope that FD incorporate VR into the flying / driving part of the game in Odyssey, but I'm honestly not hopeful. Not surprised, but disappointed nonetheless.