We need to logically break down what telepresence means what it brings to the game. What it takes away from the game. What other situations are similar in game. Explain why telepresence is okay for multicrew but not for wings. If its to get people together to play with friends i want to play togetjet with my wing friends. Am i going to be a second class federation citizen
Teleporting a wing of 4 ships to any location, creates a game-breaking exploit that means that only one player needs to do all the heavy lifting and then they can summon in their friends. If such a system is done, then you completely negate the entire reasoning and existence for Ship-transfer.
As someone else mentioned. The ability to control your ship and all the things you can do with it, is your primary means of interacting with the gameworld, everything is balanced around everyone having a ship and having a certain degree of freedom to fly, where they want, the wing system follows this balance.
Multi-crew on the other hand is very restrictive in terms of what the crew members can do. They are at the behest of the helmsman, who controls, what and where the other players will be/do and what activities they can participate in. In other words, you strip away some of the player freedom and agency in order to play with their friends.
If FDEV did as you asked, then you would completely upset the entire loop of the game and negate almost everything about it, almost done to the concept of flying a ship anywhere, because you could just teleport to your wingmates, no matter where they were.
While the two systems are designed to be enjoyed with other players, they are wildly different in terms of the freedom that they allow other players.
Give wings instant-transfer and you break the entire game. Give multi-crew instant-transfer, and game balance is preserved because they have balanced for this.
I hope that it explains something and that you were genuinely curious and not just being childish and crossing your arms, to which, nothing anyone told you would change your mind.