I'd agree with most of what you said above. As long as there is intent to make a game (and there clearly is in this case) then 'scam' is inaccurate for the project as a whole. (Although the possibility remains that they have sold premium products while fully aware that they can't deliver them, regarding ship pre-sales. That would definitely head into 'scam' territory.)
You need to go visit the refunds subreddit friend
Or hell, just look at the court case being mentioned here about the guy who couldn't get his $4.5K back ¯\(ツ)/¯
The greatest ire about SC definitely comes from the backers who feel that they have been scammed...
I agree, there are a lot of players that want a refund. But based on the numbers playing, it's not that large, but they are there (I was one).
Yes, if a refund is requested then it should be available. They paid me back within a 10days, mind you it was a lot smaller at around £500. They got sticky about refunds because they had a sudden influx helped, in large, by CR himself and that ridiculous 'Chairmans questions'. Many players started scratching their heads and thinking.. well we know don't we, I thought the same.
Yes, its a hugely and I can't express that enough,
hugely mismanaged project by someone that can't say no and is more on the creative side than the business side. But it is still a project that he believes in (imo) and there is no real reason to think there was a clear intent to defraud/scam the public.
Is it ethical, in some ways not really. Could the game have been done already with the funds already raised to date, that is a question perhaps those in dev world could answer.
But it's been mismanaged sooo badly that they're still at it.
I would say to anyone going in, keep your package to the lowest, or near lowest. Understand what it is your putting money into, keep fingers crossed and hope we'll get there.
I think it will get there, to be honest.