we should all take a deep breath and remember that
any single one of us is simply talking for the most part. We have very few precious facts in regards to Star Citizens development despite its claim of being transparent. Most of the pages are filled with personal interpretations and regardless how some people claim to be able to "see the design or intention" and link certain events and statetments in hindsight to support their own view on things none of us have definitite answers because we are not CIG, we dont work for CIG (1 exception) and we just dont know enough to make absolute statements above our own opinion. Additionally some of us have specific experience in certain areas but not all that are involved in the development of Star Citizen. All I have for example is my common sense as I have nil experience in coding, project management (apart from "managing" a relationship) or computers in general except for the very basics (and maybe I should scratch the "all I have" because it seems that common sense is in pretty short supply these days
). As such I am willing to listen to other peoples experiences and learn in the process.
Usually I like how people are treated here overall. You get your occasional ribbing and jokes are flying everywhere on behalf of others costs but generally its a friendly and informative place. Many people will make the effort and take the time to explain their points, background, share details etc. Clueless people are not ridiculed or laughed off or ignored at first sight. That might come after a lengthy process of probing and evaluating. Its pretty entertaining and once again underlines how the community surrounding Star Citizen provides more content and entertainment then the alpha itself. Most important for me is that criticism of SC and CIG is allowed and even protected (your opinion, that is...) so when criticism is standing in the open its also open to rebuttal or discussion. What I learned throughout the years in that aspect is that Star Citizen seems to be unable to refute most criticism on behalf of competence and honesty. Any number of possibilities are valid but many require increasing levels of effort and self-adjusting to make them probable (CIG gives out a date, fails, gives out another date, fails again and does so a few more times. At some point believing them makes you desperate and a victim rather then an optimist)
I realize that it can be frustrating to run into somebody who doesnt want his view changed, regardless how obvious certain things are or become during the discussion. Some are open and honest enough to eventually change their mind depending on the arguments and events unfolding. Unfortunately CIG itself is providing most of the hardest criticism even confirming certain past speculations in hindsight. After 8 years of back and forth and watching this thing you cant really claim innocence or honesty anymore when you continue to defend certain aspects of this project because doing so (already better then most AAA games....) reveals your state of mind of intention.
Its tragic if you run into a person that seems to want to be abused and deludes himself to a degree that borders on manic but these are all adults (I hope considering how much money they command.....) so you cant really "force" them. It just doesnt work. Neither does with any type of addiction. The more you push the more resistence you will encounter. Theres also the possibility that its not a tragedy but simply trolling at your expense (btw I m talking about the internet in general not specificially about this forum)
So the best you can do is to accept this and move on. Anything else is just recipee for forum moderation and toxicity when frustration spikes and minds become heated.
I have also made the decision in the past to "step up for somebodies or somethings defense" because the observable argument seemed to be pretty one-sided and unfair. By doing so I opened myself up to counter-arguments, criticism and of course hostilities but also....and thats the main point to take away....I learned quickly if my first impression was warranted or not. If I stay honest throughout the discussion with my information and intention then I ll discover whats what but of course that could also mean I was wrong.
If all I m doing is looking for validation or confirmation of my own opinion then its a waste of time to begin with.
"It takes one to recognize one" is a saying that applies here and isnt just limited to liars. If you encounter a troll or addict (applies to the real world as well) then the best thing you can do is to avoid that person and stay clear of his or her course. Various factors affect this conclusion (and internet anonymity certainly does that). Even if "poking the extremist" is your thing you can also run into the point at which the extreme overcomes your tolerance and we all know that doing so is an open invitation for hostility and toxicity and personally I dont find that very appealing or funny anymore. I ve been trolling
I ve also been blind to the truth before
I hope that I managed to escape either and not get trapped in its fangs but of course I can see others who didnt manage that or are still in the process of waking up.
SC fanboy toxicity is a pretty good catalyst to quicken that development. If you walk into the SC project with an innocent mind then asking the wrong questions will make you a target for unjustified cruelty and hostility. Changes can happen under these conditions of course but they are very unlikely. For the most part people react rather then continue on their intended path. I dont know how often I encountered this phenomena in EVE online when I first joined and was unaware of so many things so of course......a lot appeared to be stupid or strange. Simple questions from me asked in honest innocence quickly triggered the fanboys and trolls and I soon was defending myself against personal attacks or trying to hurt others rather then finding any answers to my original query. Once the witch hunting started (bounties and attacks in high sec) "enjoying the game" became impossible.
A lot of people, aware of SCs toxicity try to make up their own mind rather then enter any discussions beforehand so either cough up the money or wait for a free fly event and here it becomes very obvious that without constant justification, enforcment and indoctrination (all fiercly protected) the project itself offers more negatives then positives and when you start to talk to others "hope" often turns into "desperation" when the reality of the situation threatens your own world view. This forum is often judged as an "echo chamber of SC hate" or something. But personally I think its one of the best places to figure out Star Citizens
true state and thats also the reason why I keep posting.
In regards to Star Citizen I have encountered the often mentioned toxicity a lot but also managed to find polite and friendly individuals along the way who hold an opposite view to my own. I wont be able to change them (I tried) and the same counts for them but I still
like them and I wouldnt want to hurt or "defeat" them but of course.....CIG has different ideas. The company holds the power to prove either of us wrong at any given time. I gotta say that statements alone will not sway me anymore. Too often has CIG sweettalked its way out of a revolt in the past and hasnt come through on its promises or statements. The community has discovered too many shady things too often in hindsight for me to allow them to "change´my opinion" by mere words. Action is required and pretty good one too and to be honest I m not sure even that would be enough anymore.
I see others (previously very pro SC) going through the same change becoming increasingly cynical or even frustrated over time and I feel for them because it shows how "standing with SC" can be real work and bordering on delusion or self-deception. Its often said that this forum back in V1 was pretty optimistic and hopeful regarding SCs chances and course and its true. A lot of newcomers join the discussion in a similar state of mind. Impressed and hopeful but I never saw it survive. If it does it usually turns the person into a delusional fanatic because he or she will not listen to reason, logic or reality. After 8 years the few "defenders" the project still has appear to be so detached from reality that interacting with them is affecting me as well.
I m pretty sure Star Citizen will birth BOOKs and lots of class works but not because of the game or its course of action. If it turns out to be a scam then there will be one or two crushing articles offering evidence or logical conclusion (and IMO...that already has happened numerous times). Star Citizen rather fascinates with all the other related topics and I can easily see stuff like "how a video game managed to turn into a cult" or "my jouney into the maws of fanatiscism and back" becoming interesting to the public. Maybe some of these are already prepared as we speak or are even finished....just waiting for the prpoject to collapse or die to avoid legal consequences from CIG.