State of the Game

ubermick

ubermick
xzanfr said:
I've had some great times with good people from all different nationalities while traveling around the USA in my youth - and the food was great, especially in the south.
Don't let a couple of halfwits taint your view, most people are decent and a bit of a laugh. (y)
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Great place to visit, but living here if you don't grow up in the culture can be rough. There's a reason a lot of immigrants stay within their own circles in the bigger cities.

I'd buy a one way ticket and be on the next plane home in the morning if I could, but my wife has other ideas.
 

nemolomen

nemolomen
ubermick said:
Great place to visit, but living here if you don't grow up in the culture can be rough. There's a reason a lot of immigrants stay within their own circles in the bigger cities.

I'd buy a one way ticket and be on the next plane home in the morning if I could, but my wife has other ideas.
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Its too bad that's been your experience. The cities are def rough though, which is why I don't live in or even near them. (nearest city is 20 miles and under 50K population)

Though I'm never planning on leaving the US again, except maybe, big maybe, a few trips to Canada at some point in the future. This is mostly due to my extreme dislike of traveling via airplane.

How often do you get a chance to visit home?
 
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ubermick

ubermick
nemolomen said:
Its too bad that's been your experience. The cities are def rough though, which is why I don't live in or even near them.

Though I'm never planning on leaving the US again, except maybe, big maybe, a few trips to Canada at some point in the future. This is mostly due to my extreme dislike of traveling via airplane.

How often do you get a chance to visit home?
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I've been here 20-odd years and still can't wrap my head around the absolute need here to accumulate stuff and debt. Madness. My wife and I do well, we make good money, we live within our means. So many friends of ours though overextend on houses, or done stupid things like take out second mortgages to pay for home cinemas or hot tubs, or giant pickup trucks. The work life is mental, so many living to work and not working to live. Mind you, every time I go back home to Cork I'm noticing its getting more and more like that as well so I'm probably eyeing it with "grass is always greener" syndrome. (Although living in California the grass is literally greener everywhere else since the place is in a permanent drought and usually on fire.)

The tipping point came when my (then) five year old daughter came home from pre-kindergarten one day, and when I asked her what she learned at school that day she replied "We learned that if bad people come to the school with guns to lock the door and stay away from the windows and hide under our desks or in the toilet." Just... nope.

I used to get home every year before I moved to California (used to be in Washington DC) and we had our girl, then it became every other year. Thanks to covid and whatnot, I've not been back in four years. I had tickets booked for myself last year in March to go see my aunt before she passed away, but Trump shut the borders the night before I was leaving, and had to cancel.
 

nemolomen

nemolomen
ubermick said:
I've been here 20-odd years and still can't wrap my head around the absolute need here to accumulate stuff and debt. Madness. My wife and I do well, we make good money, we live within our means. So many friends of ours though overextend on houses, or done stupid things like take out second mortgages to pay for home cinemas or hot tubs, or giant pickup trucks. The work life is mental, so many living to work and not working to live. Mind you, every time I go back home to Cork I'm noticing its getting more and more like that as well so I'm probably eyeing it with "grass is always greener" syndrome. (Although living in California the grass is literally greener everywhere else since the place is in a permanent drought and usually on fire.)
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Its the downside of "The American Dream". Many, many people forget the power vs. responsibility balance and fall into the entitlement trap. Been there, done that and fixed it. (not the entitled part, but the getting in over my head part, took many years of hard work to fix that)

ubermick said:
The tipping point came when my (then) five year old daughter came home from pre-kindergarten one day, and when I asked her what she learned at school that day she replied "We learned that if bad people come to the school with guns to lock the door and stay away from the windows and hide under our desks or in the toilet." Just... nope.
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That one is hard on everyone and there's no easy solution one way or another. I've experienced gun violence my entire life and it is absolutely devastating. Though there is another side to that coin which I can't comment on here due to forum rules. By personal choice, I'm not currently a gun owner, for the past 25+ years, though I feel that getting closer every year lately.

ubermick said:
I used to get home every year before I moved to California (used to be in Washington DC) and we had our girl, then it became every other year. Thanks to covid and whatnot, I've not been back in four years. I had tickets booked for myself last year in March to go see my aunt before she passed away, but Trump shut the borders the night before I was leaving, and had to cancel.
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That sucks. I was in Germany when my father passed and, for reasons, could not get home until weeks after the burial. I understand how much that sucks.

I want to end this on a good note. Anyone got any suggestions? I'm tapped out...
 

ubermick

ubermick
nemolomen said:
That one is hard on everyone and there's no easy solution one way or another. I've experienced gun violence my entire life and it is absolutely devastating. Though there is another side to that coin which I can't comment on here due to forum rules. By personal choice, I'm not currently a gun owner, for the past 25+ years, though I feel that getting closer every year lately.
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I currently own a few that are locked in a safe. (My best friend over the road here is VERY much into them). There's a Jim Jefferies bit that sums it up nicely which I can't post on here because language, but... if you were to look up "Jim Jefferies gun control" on the Youtubes, you'd find it easily enough! ;)
 

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If Fdev would just listen to reason and give us cockpit cats, we wouldn't need guns. Because everyone knows future cats shoot laser beams out of their eyes.

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nemolomen

nemolomen
ubermick said:
I currently own a few that are locked in a safe. (My best friend over the road here is VERY much into them). There's a Jim Jefferies bit that sums it up nicely which I can't post on here because language, but... if you were to look up "Jim Jefferies gun control" on the Youtubes, you'd find it easily enough! ;)
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