I'd agree that the rise in toxicity has certainly put me off adversarial multiplayer games...even though I used to play competitive multiplayer like Tribes 2 for prizes. I still play some adversarial games...but the toxicity in both language and gameplay is seriously making it hard going just ignoring most of it.
I get sad more than angry or retaliatory...seems mostly like these days, I end up babysitting other folks unruly brats online rather than find decent souls who are just after some fun.
Indeed, and then we have those who want to "score points" on internet forums by throwing wild assertions and speculation rather than factual logic and information that benefits other players. Those who continually wish to demonize others by creating divisiveness because they can't see past their own hatred- yet have the audacity to call others "trolls" or "white knights" or "pretentious" because they cannot simply agree to disagree like an adult can.