I agree that most Muslims are as you say, nice, normal individuals, but it only takes a vocal and violent minority to make a terrible existence, do you really thing most Saudis and Afghans like their terror states ? No, but the extremist minority have the power, name a western country with a Christian majority that is as bad as Saudi Arabia, the closest you come is Ireland or the United States, but they are nowhere near as bad because less people in that religion take it seriously, Islam is about submission the same as Christianity during the crusades, trouble is Islam still behaves as Christianity did then.