
"Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X
There is a lot of conversation on these forums about ganking. Although it is by no means as common as some make it out to be, it is nonetheless a thing that happens in Open. There is also a lot of conversation about things like high gravity crashes, changes to markets that reduce overall profits from mining, difficulties with unlocking modules due to material requirements, and so on. It's all adversity. It's the struggle. It's the unavoidable meat grinder that everyone must walk through at some point.
But do we actually come out the other side better off than when we went in?
I came to the conclusion quite a few years ago that dying in a fire is actually a marvelous thing. It's something to be celebrated; a moment in time when we must face loss and come to terms with it. And the more I've lost, the less losing has bothered me. It's like when I started playing poker and became utterly enraged by other players sucking out with crazy river cards that blew my 90%+ chance of winning the hand right out the window. I couldn't help it, because it wasn't fair.
Years later, I know that "fair" has nothing to do with it. I barely notice it when it happens any more.
I am of the strange mind that every Elite player should, as soon as they have a solid grasp of how to handle their ships, arm themselves to the teeth and go looking for someone who will kill them. I think they should go in guns blazing... and die gloriously. I think they should take the first ship they're genuinely proud of owning... and fly it directly into the closest neutron star. If everyone did these things at the start of their Elite careers, I think they would be far less inclined to fear loss in this game.
If everyone did this, the galaxy would be a very different place.
Do you agree? Do you think that baptism by fire allows us to enjoy the game more? Is there some inherent merit to being less concerned with setbacks and more concerned with personal growth as a pilot, or is this just nonsense that you feel feeds an element of Elite that you despise? I ask because I'm not particularly interested in the nature of the challenges we face. What I am interested in is how we approach and overcome those challenges. It's our mindsets that are fascinating, not the mechanics of life and death.
Is dying in a fire truly a marvelous thing?