It begin said disappointment and refusal strengthening the character well, i guess some people better to be prepared to develop a super strong character because that's what they ever have.
After all, some sadistic jerks after inventing the crime of combat logging decided to use up against you the legal system if you disagree / don't talk with them. But as usual they are shifting blame / blame the victim sometimes before time to make em looks like innocent. Lucky we already understood what's this game all about right?

Honestly, is just like communism... That's where you can find yourself in gulag if you did not agree with the party.