So why you playing game with a le DANGEROUS when you reject it 'dangerous' side?
Seriously, space engine is better for screenshots, better for exploring and is not dangerous.
In open you also decide when you taking risk. When you flying in insecure system you are taking risk. If you take a decision in fighting with a Python in your Asp or cobra you taken a risk.
If every players will ALWAYS kill you or every NPC will ALWAYS kill you maybe it is no sense to play, becuse this is game about killing, war, slavery and other bad things.
You can also ALWAYS decide to RUN and you will not be killed both by npc or a player. You have just to poses a better engine. Thats all.
Death by a player is a very low chance from deaths you can gain in this game. You can be killed by a lot of npc. You can be interdicted by NPC and this is NOT your decision when you will be interdicted.
You may crash in station, you may crash on asteroid or your ship may explode by heat.....
There is 200 000 players in 400 bln star systems..... Count a probability to meet somebody and calclulate probability to meet a psychopatic player...
Your last sentence makes my funny. 'your are wrong, because you are bad, and you thinking wrong, because you are not right, because NO'

Good. Your arguments are similiar to that:
http://youtu.be/SnkZGN_xIVs - you can translate if you like

Please, stop talking in that agressive way

It is not kind. This is a 'taking style' in pve groups? Or something else?
Seriously you was a maltreated so much by other players in open? Man, we can help you... as i said - you can always fly with some friends or mine wing. I can show you a lighter parts of open sides of game
And i have question. Do you have something against to divide open and group/solo by a commander slot?