Can I just add a bit about scraping the mail slot?
Going out from the nearest pads was the worst for me, I kept scraping the top or bottom - got some hints from people when I posted a thread asking for tips (plus I got some rather horrible comments too).
However, I found that the sure-fire way to get out of the station clean is to not alter your pitch angle at all from leaving the pad. Just use vertical + lateral + roll thrusters and you stay parallel to the station's axis and thus are heading straight. The scraping was always from me being nose-up or nose-down, lining up was OK but the angle of attack messed things up. I never scrape the slot now (touch wood).
One really good tip I received was to use the centre-marks on the left and right secondary fire arcs on your hud to guide where dead ahead is - saves having that stupid mouse thingie.
Finally, docking the anaconda turned out to be so easy, much easier than the T9 (or even the T7 sometimes).