This last month or so I've really somehow got my head around using the indicators bottom left properly, which really tell you why the ship has decided the speed it has decided and also make it a lot easier to beat the automatic logic. Saves you a lot in the final approach once you're willing to have the speed indicator way above the distance indicator because you've figured out it's really over-reading and it will drop just in time...My term "speeding up uncontrollably" can be rewritten as "decelerating more slowly than normal", thereby covering the same distance in less time, which is what is actually happening in the first place.
There's rate of change of rate of change of rate of change stuff going on there so it's amazing FDev came up with this flight model and made it fit in a gamer's head in the first place!