If you're on PC yeah I'm sure it's pretty bad. I can't speak for Xbox but PlayStation's community isn't all that bad really. They have it so people who tend to grief other people get added bad sport ratings and wind up in lobbies with other bad sport people.
On XB - spent 2 hours in and around Lave/Reorte this evening in Open in un-engineered Cobra mk iii (the lore demands it for me lol). Couple cargo runs saw loads of Cmndrs, not one o7 or interdiction, one flying round with FSD interdictor but no issue, may have been protection, dunno. Went to Nav Beacon for bounties, about 6 other Cmdrs not a single wanted ship in 10 minutes, not a single battle or hello again, went to Res Site got my bounties, back to station, couple Cutters, FDLs hanging round with FSD interdictors but clean, T9s and T7s coming and going and others, nobody seemed to be having any issues. Saw a Mostly Harmless T9, thought, well done you!
Apart from the complete lack of o7s or hellos no issue at all, we may be an unfriendly bunch but not aggressive it seems.
And all please notice that despite the Alliance CG being the only one not to complete that busy week a few months ago we are still providing parties for all at this time of year. What are your Superpowers giving you for the celebrations hmm?