I have to admit I'm thoroughly enjoying it.
But I am sort of an aimless drifter from one thing to the next rather than a focused planner/grinder.
I buy all the suits and go to check out some new atmospheric planets.
Look at a sunset. Looks cool. See some plants. Start scanning them.
Find there's one type of life (bacteria) I can't seem to track down.
Fly back up into space. Look at the heatmap, find a small patch. Go down, find it, scan it. Nice.
A ship flies overhead while I'm finishing up. I see its shadow cross the landscape, blotting out the low banks of fog as it goes.
I jump in my ship, notice the other guy is wanted. I fly up and dogfight with him in the pastel light of dawn.
Fly back to station to turn in bounty and samples. Someone asks me to power on a settlement that was devastated by attackers. Okay.
The settlement is a sprawling farm in pitch darkness. I spend maybe an hour there, finding the power room, putting out fires, looting everything not nailed down and making trips back to my SRV to unload (I guess the settlement will be claiming all this stuff on insurance anyway... this stuff is just an unspoken part of the payment, right?).
Maybe one day I'll look into whether I have enough junk for some equipment upgrades, but I'm not worrying about that yet.
On leaving, I look at the planet map and notice a settlement nearby is a conflict zone. I fly over there in my ship to have a look, land nearby, and dive into the fight in my SRV.
Eventually my SRV is damaged and I bail out before it blows up. I'm fighting on foot now, dodging plasma bolts and sniping enemies at control points.
We win. Woo!
I see an interesting boulder field in the distance. I wander off to have a look...
Could it do with a lot of work? Yes. But Odyssey just adds more activities for me to wander between. More environments and scales to experience while doing it. I'm a simple man. That's exactly what I wanted.
So I suppose I'm who it's for.
And when I look around at people tearing hair out over "the grind" or whatever, sometimes I think I'm who Elite Dangerous is aimed at in general.