I reinstalled ED still all i get is the mountain screen, uninstalled Steam still the same mountain, now I cant load ED without WMR starting still the same screen.
That is normal (at least in my experience).
When I start ED in VR with my WMR stuff, this is the process I use:
Put on the headset and go into the WMR home area (I've found that the calibration is off at times if I don't do this)
Bring up the desktop and start ED (IIRC, the steam build does bring up the FDev launcher as well)
SteamVR starts up, I see the SteamVR 'world' (I disabled home from auto loading)
The ED splash screen fades in, and I'm presented with my current ship parked on a pad.
I checked my 3D settings, and there are two options for VR: HMD speakers or headset.
It might be worth giving the ED Profiler by Dr. Kaii a go as well? I use it, and there is an option to totally disable VR support when starting the launcher so the VR subsystems don't load at all, if that is what one wants at the time. I've got two profiles set up using it, one for pancake and one for VR.