Back to the game after a long layoff and thought I would try the CG at Maia. Was getting a bit bored in Mobius so decided to ship my cheap Cobra over and see what all the fuss was about in open. Not making that mistake again! Not a rant, as I was well aware of the risks of open but not sure why anyone would want to run the gauntlet of engineered PVP builds who sit there taking out unarmed Cobras!
Lesson learned and thanks to Mobius for providing a safe haven!
There is more than one way to skin a cat. My Cutter has ~10kMj of effective shielding with 3 pips in System and can still boost out to 450 with a 704t load. I trade with it almost exclusively in Open and I've only ever lost it once, as a result of a gamecrash and a Pirate Commander crying that I had Combat Logged on him, so I gave him a free kill to stop the tears. On the other hand, when I had a Spacecow, I mean Type 9, I traded almost exclusively in solo because it had the durability of wet tissue.
My point being that there human pvpers are just a gameplay element to me, when I want that challenge I engage with it and when I don't, I don't. Frankly, I can't see the logic in trying to dictate how others play the game or refer to it as "toxic." Just treat them as a hard type of NPC you can fight/outwit if that sort of gameplay takes your fancy of an evening. If not then you have many other gameplay options available, as you have acknowledged yourself.