It is really hard for me to believe that many of you actually believe what you type.
Social tools are important because they allow people to feel they are in a "universe" that is alive. Sure, you can say, "hello" with your laser beams. But, that is not really a productive greeting when you are trying to make friends or find companions. Just because Call of Duty is filled with 12 year olds who have nothing better to do that practice their "vocabulary" doesn't make all social functions in all games are like that. Everyone recognizes that games like Call of Duty are extreme examples of that type of behavior.
In EVE, there can be quite a bit of unnecessary banter in a very small number of locations (notably Jita). However, people generally frown on using local chat anywhere else. It is one of the earliest lessons new players are taught. When local chat is used, it is generally for relevant conversation. I'm not saying gibes are not exchanged from time to time. But, generally it is not. You are at least 100 times more likely to hear "good fight" after an encounter than anything else (unless you are a Goon

). In a game like Elite

angerous, it is more likely to follow that model than the Call of Duty one. The reason being that this is a game where announcing your presence is not necessarily in your best interest. Just like in EVE. Like it or not, this is a PVP game (that is if you don't sequester yourself in solo mode thus negating any possible interactions anyway). No matter what you are doing, you are subject to the possibility of an unwanted/unexpected encounter. Therefore, local chat would likely not be filled with "hue hue... your mom... suck this... suck that... blah blah blah". Instead, it would likely be occasionally blessed with some friendly banter or pertinent information about game play. Perhaps, god forbid, even an attempt to make friends.
The current system not only makes it hard to communicate with others. It actively discourages it. Trying to make contact with fellow commanders should not be as difficult as it is. Are these forums your only acceptable form of communication? Personally, I dislike forums. They are a terrible way to communicate or engage in emergent game play. They are akin to e-mail except everyone gets to see it. As well, they add nothing to the game experience and probably promotes more disharmony than even Call of Duty VoIP.
Nobody is asking for social features that you are required to use. Just like in any MMO that is out there, those features can easily be disabled or minimized. In many games you can even set your status so as to not receive any communication from unknown persons... or even known ones. The point of any MMO is to share in an experience. What is there to share if you can't even communicate your experiences to others while playing. You can try to draw some kind of distinction between MMO and MMORPG. But, you're deluding yourself if you think this game is any less of an MMORPG than any other. You are playing a role that you yourself can never hope to experience in a universe shared with others. Why is it so hard to accept that people (by their vary nature social creatures) might want the ability to engage each other in discourse while they travel amongst the stars. As well, being as it is quite easily avoided, why would you care to rob people of that ability simply because you don't want to participate? I find that attitude to be selfish and condescending.
I have found it quite difficult to find the desire to play without the ability to chat with others. I have often tried. But, the way the system currently works it is an exercise in futility. You simply can't have a meaningful interaction with others in the game and I find that quite sad. Elite

angerous is a true dystopia it seems. I understand David likes to try to do things differently. He likes to challenge the status quo and I can applaud that aspect of his nature. But, on this point I feel he is truly wrong.