Then you need to join us in arguing for draconian deterrents for player killing, lower consequences for traders and a proper chance for dedicated pirates to really be treated as the outlaws they are.
Pirating should be a serious career choice with consequences that are fun to play and hard to shake off, not a temporary mood choice with consequences that can be laughed off.
That post above linked from Sandro at least makes it look like they are trying to come up with ways to lessen the currently lop-sided consequences of the outcome for the trader and make more of a target of the pirate.