If you can't differentiate between arson & physical violence in the real world and a couple of space pixels then, as I said earlier - I'm not the one with the problem.
But I'll help clarify this for you - One is pretend-fantasy-make-believe and the other is real. Hopefully, you can figure out which is which.
And while you defend the actions of a cheat life is passing by so quickly. To some people this pixellated game may be the only thing they have, where as you have your mates who cheat and exploit games. Who lives in the fantasy world well you both do, but at least one of you plays the game for what it is, a game and not a place to cause pain and distress to others.
You may enjoy causing distress, but hay you are here backing up your friends, so what does that make you?