Nice buzzwording.
The point is: because it does not exist, putting "simulation" issues against wait times is invalid.
When you speed up the hangar sequence it can not break "simulation" as the hangar process is made up.
When you reduce the mass lock distance it can not break "simulation" as the whole mass lock thing is made up.
When you speed up the SC it can not break "simulation" as the super cruise is made up.
And most importantly: Whether a simulation involves boring and tedious bits is depending on what you simulate. A simulation of the fuel consumption of seaships is nowhere as exiting as the flight simulation of a f-16. And when you make up a world and want to "simulate" certain aspects of it, you can very well leave out the tedious and boring bits as there is no "reality" to limit you in your gameplay decisions.
I am slightly confused, simulation does mean it simulates, whever if or if not the simulation is 100% realistic is another matter, and there are certain limits that are needed to be broken to make an actual game like this work, since currently we have no way of going faster then light, they invented a way to do so.
I do not understand what you mean it is made up? your ship needs to turn around so the hangar does that in a very neat way in my opinion, you would just rather it I don't know just blinked a quick sec and then you were turned around? really? that would suck if you ask me.
Mass lock distance? mass and gravity work along certain principles, why is it so bad that you are mass locked and can't supercruise before like..what..5-10? seconds have passed? really is that a problem? 5-10 seconds?
Supercruise needs to be faster? it is already very very fast, so as far as I can understand the only problem is that the "best" places, rares and such take a while to get to, you are saying you want to get to the place where you can buy RARE materials and such at favorable prices quicker? You feel it takes too long to earn money?
Here's my questions to you, what is it you want? how long 'should' it take in your mind? how long should it take to get enough money to buy everything ('complete the game'?) seriously?