Well who decides here was it an accident, a suicide attempt or did you try to kill the guy?
FD assumes now that anyone over the speed limit is a potential killer and if he hits someone, he will be a criminal. And this is a problem.
If the patch goes live just like that, every time you hit someone with significant speed, you will be a criminal and the station will kill you.
And no fire zone means just that - no fire. Ramming is allowed and should be allowed. If you kill someone, they can charge you for that, if you do damage to the hull - you get a fine. If there is no damage done to the ship, nothing happens. Suicide attemps will not count at all.
Yes, it's a problem. And its a problem caused by "players" like you. It's unfortunate that FD chose this solution when the obviously better one would be to ban you and your friend from playing in open.