funny, I am elite combat rank, but only cause iv been playing so long and 15000kills adds up. I actually suck at combat and thought the game before the patch was rather hard and I ran 30% of the time from interdictions. Now I run 100% of the time as I lost a fed gunship (A rated) to an eagle earlier and it cost me 4 mil.
There is no shame in truth.
Clear save, start from the beginning, and take what you have learned and apply it.