Okay, so here's the facts.
I think you are not familiar with the word "fact"?
Frontier is losing large portions of their community by the day.
I wouldn't know if that is true. If so they will return further down the line. It's that kind of a game. ED is a game for the long term.
I play tons of other games myself too. Fallout 4 ate many of my hours, so did Thief, so will Dishonored 2 and the new Deus Ex etc.
But I will always return to Elite for many years to come.
Their forums aren't a place to have "discussion" anymore, it's a place for complaining.
People discuss on here all the time.
Indeed there is a lot of whining going on, but you can ignore those threads and discuss with the many people who really care about the game.
Even many of the whiners care about the game, they just don't get that a dev might not see things their way and might make different choices.
Elite is currently a grind hell that is mind numbing boring and is just not what a game should be.
The game is in full development. Not everything is perfect, and some things will never be the way you want it because you are not the one building this game.
Same is true for me. In general though I can only say that I love this game. I really do.
There are arriving titles like No Man's Sky, Star Citizen etc that appear they will blow them out of the water.
I am interested in No Man's Sky. I think I will have fun with it for a while, but the candy colored universe of NMS will drive me mad eventually.
I also think the flight mechanic might be extremely superficial and unrealistic. The PG that generates NMS's universe is too. Planets are tiny and atmospheres are paper thin. It will be fun but it will not be able to keep me interested like ED does.
Star Citizen is a project I am not even sure about whether it will ever produce anything that looks like a game. I do not like the small, limited sector based universe (that is what makes ED so cool), I do not like the spaceships that look like jetfighters.
I intend to play SC if it ever produces something playable. But I won't hold my breath.
Star Citizen is far deeper and contains much more content even in its early stages.
What? Uh? What? I just... I don't... I ... that's just... Oh jeeeeeez.... and I really tried taking you seriously.