How do you win Elite?
There does seem to be an increased surge of posters who seem determined to try to steer ED into becoming a shallow copy of EvE. I honestly think they've not grasped the basis of the previous games in the series, or the direction of it's current incarnation.
My opinion, (quite often wrong.)
ED - isn't player centric - Sorry but you're no longer daddies little wallflower, the galaxy doesn't revolve around you anymore. You're just a small cog in a big machine. If you're really good then you may be able to influence the outcome in small ways.
ED - isn't clan/guild/org centric. Yep you and your gang aren't the meanest, rottenest,tootinest bad boys on the hood anymore. Why? Cause by design you haven't got a hood. Currently you won't get one either, (subject to change). ED isn't "just a game", in some respects its the culmination of series spanning 30 years and quite possibly a lifetimes dream for one man. A man who wants to give us a seamless, as scientifically accurate as possible, procedurally generated galaxy to play in. The current direction would indicate he's not ready to let people start building walls around chunks of that galaxy just yet. If you can see it you can go there - imagine you can go anywhere, but not that place. Epsilon Eriadnae thats Reddit Central, Beetlegeuse? sorry now named Goonville, Oh and the Clusterf**k coalition have just staked a claim to Barnards Star you you better drop those computers off quick. That's not to say getting there won't be a challenge in it's own right, just that the gameplay will create the challenge, individual players will create the challenge not groups of overhyped, neo- napoleons living their lives through a computer monitor. You can still hang out with your mate, have some lolz and pawn the other guys case they had the temerity to pay 10 bucks to the wrong forum. You just ain't going to be able to dominate my or anyone else's gaming experience for the salty tears and hate mail.
Risk/Reward - yep there's risk, there's rewards for taking risks. However the's also consequences. Rather than allow the game to descend into a cesspit of ganking and griefing from the off and then spend the next ten years trying to fix the problem. FD are trying to moderate the problem early, that's not to say they won't get it right first time but they get points for trying. You can be a PK'er randomly murdering anyone you come across, but there are consequences, you can grief someone for that extra special feeling of epeeny tiny weenyness but eventually the system will catch up with you.
Bottom line, you can have fun, but if you fun comes from making other peoples lives a misery it's going to be that little bit less satisfying for you, but a whole lot more enjoyable for the majority of other people.
So my answer to how do you win Elite - however you want to, or not at all. As long as it's fun along the way.