Er no .... It really isn't and you are being disingenuous to anyone who has limited play time. Sometimes people will just want to pick up and play a game, not 'Plan' what they are going to do for the next hour or so, its not a job .
FD needs to make a game that appeals to as many people as possible, they are also making the game that THEY want to. Sounds to me like you are trying to hang onto ideals that existed 20 years ago when Frontier/FFE came out, well I am sorry but those days are long gone. If you created a game like that now people just wouldn't buy it, not in any huge amount anyway. And this is coming from someone with thinks Elite/Frontier/FFE are some of best games ever made and thoroughly enjoyed playing them at the time. But things move forward and times change.
Thats not to say that Elite should go down the route of NMS and make everything utterly simplified because they won't do that, but some QOL additions to the game that make it a bit more palatable to some is fine by me. You really need to take into account other people needs as well as your own.
We all (most of us anyway) have real lives and limited playtime. It is a bogus and pathetic argument.