There is already a bunch of things in the game I don't see people complaining about.
1) Magically being teleported to your choice of places after dying. (Instantly)
2) Magically having your ship with your exact same layout and customizations automatically printed and ready to go after death
3) Magically synthesizing ammunition, fuel, repairs on board.
4) Many more magical things that cannot really be explained by science for the sake of making it a GAME that is FUN.
I don't see what the big deal is. As I said once before - the whiners need to DEAL WITH IT. They have overlooked other gameplay decisions already which made total sense. Its time to compromise and realize there WILL BE instant ship transfers and I'm 100% behind it.
As I think everyone agrees I think if there are any delays they should scale with the distance.
The only people upset about this are trolls trying to ruin other people's game experience via pvp. So once this goes live I can see their tears..
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