HAHAHA! You are grasping at straws.
*sigh* No, I absolutely am not saying they
are little alien babies-- just following your child analogy. Swap mother with owner, child with possession then.
You would bust into your neighbor's house in the morning to shout "my house is on fire, help".
You would also bust into your neighbor's house in the morning to shout "if I ever find you stealing my stuff, you will pay".
So both options are viable until we decode the message really, so there may or may not be hostility-- until we understand the message and/or get an OBVIOUS hostile attack.
However, that is not the path I chose. If I lose a ship, then that is fine.
Basing choices on expendability of having endless 7UPs isn't really very RPish for me. Assume you only have one life and this choice here affects it and I'm sure the view of bravado choices will severely narrow.
More on topic, since I'm around 20kylies from the place-where-its-happening: does the trail they leave affect flight in any way? On videos it shows a distortion of sorts.