A quick post before bed - have to agree with OP here.
For my two regular wingmates, one guy is new, the other seasoned. The latter and I have spent the better part of the past two months winged up more often than not. Rarely do we take our space adventures seriously.
I've found that I have more fun playing this game semi-aimlessly, and most of the time we just screw around, have fun, and decide each day what the new "thing to do" is. That has resulted in more laughs and more more fun in this game than I ever had.
And that doesn't include the other friends that we wing up with from time to time, which just makes it better.
I think multicrew is going to be great when you rez in a like-minded CMDR and just have fun.