I have never once addressed the issue of whether it would be "realistic".
All I've done is point out that allowing large ships to interact with platforms would remove one of the limitations the game designers chose to impose.
It's a bit rich accusing me of "derailing the thread" (not to mention "trolling") by using real-world examples of games having rules when you're just as guilty of asserting real-world comparisons to suit your own purposes.
Simple fact is, we're playing a GAME.
And one of the ways games attempt to ensure that different play-styles are catered for is to impose arbitrary limitations on what a player can do.
On a different note, I find this all a bit odd for practical reasons too.
Any ship can currently refuel using a fuel-scoop.
And we've got people saying "Oh, but what if your fuel scoop is damaged or what if you don't have one?"
So, erm, how's "limpet refueling" going to improve things?
Are we saying that somebody who doesn't bother to fit a fuel scoop IS going to fit a limpet controller and have a stockpile of limpets at hand?
And they're not going to have been damaged/lost in the same hypothetical battle that rendered the hypothetical fuel scoop useless?
Or that the hypothetical player who didn't bother to fit a fuel scoop IS going to bother to install a limpet controller and buy limpets?
Or is this just going to lead to people moaning that "Well, I could have refueled at a platform if I had limpets so why can't I just land there instead? It'd be more realistic"?