Not everyone wants insta-load-cargo.
Let me challenge such kind of thoughts...
You said you don't want insta cargo load/unload, usually under the pretense of immersion and realism, but how about these :
1. Will you demand no insta ship startup? You want to fly the aurora? Do pass the non skippable 10 minutes startup sequence first, oops sorry there is no one I-win startup button either, you have to learn how your ship works, and memorize them.
2. You want to dock at a port? Do adhere the protocols first, if the atc told you to wait in the line and fly in circles for 20 minutes then you are obliged to comply.
3. You want to embark or disembark somewhere? please do follow the immigration and security procedures first.
Etc.
So, where do we draw the line for such immersion and realism? At what cost?