Take 2. I never said let em drown. What i said do not let em come, turn them back. Understand the difference? I don't really feel empathy toward them? Also true. You know why? because there is a thing what i understood long long years before the people demanding your help! ( Yes you read that right! )They are not asking but demanding your help. They are abusing it, they don't say thanks they don't even grateful for it just using you up. And after this happened? Turning away you and never seen or hear about them, until... They are need help again.
Do you ever been an emotional trash bin, or the guy everyone asked help for? Or you ever had drinking buddies, whom only your friend that far while you have money? I did... And had enough these kind of demanding backstabbing so called friends, and acquaintances for a lifetime! Do you think these refugees (A lot of them are illegal economical migrants) are any better? let me assure you! they are not. They are not really need in help, what they want is to give em everything what you stupid enough to give, and after that? They will laughing on you behind on your back. Or just like the fuel rats! Call them out, and after that? Shoot you down.
It does matter whom you allow in your home, and whom not? Whom you help, and whom not? Neither of this can do without careful consideration, and deliberation of your resources.
Do i looks like cold insensitive and calculating? Damn straight i'm! And you know what? I have a pretty good reason to be like this.
Do i turned my back to everything and everyone? No i'm not! But i think twice whom
and how to help, whom i let in to my life. And you know what? I'm right about it!
I don't let my good intentions to be abused!
1.
We had this already.
And I asked you how back then.
Which you never Specified.
Because Refugees on Open Ocean with barely enough Rations to come here in the First Place. Will Drown if you turn them back.
You cant force em back without effectively going to War with the Nations down there because you need to cross their Territory for it.
And your Answer was pretty simple. "Thats their Problem and their Fault. Not ours"
And sorry but you can turn it all you want. That effectively is saying let them Drown
2.
Yes.
In Fact to a very Problematic degree. Because for some Reason Women like me alot. They like to have me around them. And they tell me anything and everything. Just somehow dont consider the option of going out with me unless I really press the issue lol.
Something I often get told by my Friends to just make use of. Because they obviously Trust me. But I am not the type to abuse a weak situation or the trust of someone who came to me for help.
I do get annoyed however if People constantly tell me about their Problems and refuse to let me Help.
Actually had a big fight about that with a Girl back then. Cause she constantly told me about all her Problems. Partially stuff I could have helped with a Great deal due to my Family. Yet she always refused to let me help or even try solving it. Thus getting me really off. But well different Story.
I also had quite enough people who betrayed me. Laughed at me behind my back. Etc etc. By the way.
But I learned to not get myself worked up over it. I am well enough off to just be nice anyways. Its not hurting me. So why get worked up over it ?
Many of them noticed they made a mistake later on when they really needed help.
On Refugees. Most of em are actually needing Help. The Question is if they might overstate their troubles.
You See Mate. People fleeing from other parts due to their bad lifes and claiming they are Syrian because that gets em in due to the War.
Can you Blame them ? Their Situation despite not having War is often not that much better.
And we are not so Poor that it will Hurt us to take them in. In Fact many of them are useful to us.
The Fuel Rats are a Great Example.
Sure. They might now and then be Shot Down after being Called.
Sure them being Nice might be abused by some People. Yet they keep doing it
To the last.
Yes you are. But I would not consider that an badge of Honor. Regardless of your Reasons.
By that Reasoning Germany starting WW2 after being Shunned and Humiliated would be Justified and the Right Course of Action. *gg*
But. The Fundamental difference is.
I am the Type who wants to Save as many as Possible even if it means Risking that theres a few among them which might not deserve it.
You on the other Hand are the Type who will Abandon most to prevent the few which might not deserve it from being allowed in alongside.
And thats an absurd difference.
Because it means. When I get a Boat with 200 Men and 20 Woman and get told. There is a Man aboerd which might be a Criminal. Then I will of course check the Men. But even if it means letting that one Criminal In. Even if I knew for sure he is there.
I would take the 220 People in.
You on the other Hand would likely say. Ok the 20 Women we safe. The rest you can leave to die cause you dont want the Criminal to get in.
And sorry. But killing 199 People is in my eyes not an Justified Tradeoff.
