I did all of my PVP years back in games like BF2142 all the way through to just before BF4 came out, those to me are pvp games. but after years of playing them and being in clans, guilds etc and falling out with people in RL screaming matches over TS, being an admin for a few servers the whole urge or need to do anything PVP drained out of me, it was just too fudgeing stressfull.
Played Eve for over six years but never got into the pvp side of it even though I lived in wormhole space for a lot of it, did a bit of pvp in SWTOR but much prefered the pve side of it.
ED for me is a solo player game with a bit of an mmo and some pvp bolted on the side off it as an afterthought. I play it to be Lokvette queen of the stars, doing her own thing in her own time, I dont need other people to enjoy the game, nor do I feel the need to be others content. Its funny as my brother got this game at the start of this year, he is or was a very avid pvp player in eve well over the 3k player killed mark, but when I explained to him to be competitive in pvp in ED I think he looked at it and went ..nah sod that, and he went back to other pvp/games.
Im not saying it should be an even playing field but engineers went a long way to screwing up a lot of the game for a lot of people or that's the impression I get reading the forum, I also think the fact you can't sign up for Imp, Fed or the Alliance past the ohh im an Imp. fed or an Alliance supporter in terms of unless you're in a player group it sometimes feels your actions are worthless and there is nothing to really fight over. Again that's just the way I see it if there was hell I might even do it, but then I look at the engineers and think fudge that for a game of soldiers.