Make it too easy and it gets boring very quickly, that may be one of the reasons for the enduring appeal of these games.
I'm not saying it should be easy. I'm saying that it was at times frustrating. I mean, even the docking thing isn't really challenging because once you've managed somehow to dock a few times you'll have enough money to buy a docking computer.
But Elite was not user-friendly at all. Trading was annoying what with having to "n" through every commodity to buy something. Having to dock at each system to buy one use of hyperspace fuel. There are many more annoying things.
But this is in retrospect, after user-friendly games such as Frontier. As i said, Elite was truly mind-boggling for its time. But i don't believe computer systems could really cope with such a vision until later.
And you'll see that my post wasn't saying that he SHOULD forget Elite, just that if the docking thing is annoying him, he should try F/FFE as another option.
I'm not the sort of person who would denigrate Elite, because i was so inspired by it that i wrote a 10,000 word story set in the elite universe when i was about 12.