I don't even know what you're talking about. All I'm saying is that this community is very risk adverse and prefers an easier game as opposed to wanting a challenge. I only mentioned my experience with gaming to demonstrate a familiarity with gaming communities in general, never did I suggest that my age alone somehow validated my opinion. Speaking of which, for someone who seems so adamant about protecting the sanctity of opinions, you spent a considerable amount of time shooting down my opinion. I don't know man, you took a whole lot of things on pure assumption and I'm just sitting here in disbelief at how someone can be so narrow-minded while expressing their own right to an opinion.
I agree with your claim that this game is not fundamentally a game based around pvp. But pvp still exists because the mechanic for non-consensual pvp exists. Piloting a ship in this game takes skill and practice, it's only natural that some people will want to test this skill against others. As you intimate, arranged duels are a bit lame, so they attack other people. Some people only attack combat ships, some only attack combat ships piloted by people with high combat ranks, and some only attack combat ships piloted by people with high combat ranks from opposing factions in a lore-friendly manner. And some only attack noobs outside eravate and during CGs. Why? Who knows? and who cares? You're not a psychologist so stop assuming it's all due to "internet machismo" and because their mothers didn't hug them enough.
I have my thoughts on why carebears hate pvp. If you truly want, I'll go into it. But I don't assume that covers every single carebear who plays the game because that's ridiculous.
Also, if you don't like open pvp, the developers included a solo mode which still affects the somewhat persistent game world. And an option to play online with friends in private groups. What more do you want?