What drives you to continue to engage in PvP?
The alternative is either to retreat into a different mode, or having a CMDR that cannot stand up to aggression in Open.
I choose to play this game as an MMO and choose to play a CMDR that can generally go where, and do as, he pleases, despite resistance. Therefore I have to be competent at inter-CMDR combat and my CMDR must be equipped for it. Since I enjoy varied and challenging combat, I don't go out of my way to avoid it, but even if I didn't enjoy it, I'd still need to be decent at it to play the character I envision playing.
IAlthough it is indeed primarily on FD for making PvE and PvP builds so far apart in terms of power and then further exacerbating the divide with tiered engineer mods... a part of the blame still remains on the player that C-logs.
Completely different issues and the responsibility for one does not diminish responsibility for the other.