From the desk of my lovely better half, Mrs Goose4291
“I’m really sorry that this man had cancer. I can’t imagine what kind of hell he has had to suffer and what life holds for him. However. Here we go. I’m now going to be regarded as somewhat contentious. He is playing an online game with hundreds of thousands of players and he is still an active participant. Here’s the controversial part: why should his illness matter? If he hadn’t told you, you wouldn’t know. It doesn’t impact his game. It might impact his commitment to the game on a long term but at the same time why should people treat him differently?
What about the special provisions put in place by frontier you say? Well they did that (and very understanding of them too) and have made it clear that any issues can be dealt with via in game mechanics.
As I said before, I’m sorry this man has cancer and I really wish him all the best. But it’s still a multiplayer online game where people can do what they like within the game’s context.
After catching up on this thread, left it around 9 gmt last night thus far this has been by far the post that made the most sense to me, and its from the other half of a player. Rep to your better half.
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Expanding on my two liner back in the thread
Its not like who ever did this turned up and left a burning bag on his door step rang the bell and legged it, nor will it mean that the end goal for this event, or at least if I right in my understanding of player owned Mega Ships its FD who do the moveing on a thursday, if Im wrong on that Ill hold my hand up.
I know what this event is for but Ive never heard of it untill now, its a bit like watching the news and seeing dead kids getting pulled out of bombed buildings, hate to say its become so far removed and part of modern life that after seeing it most people get up and put the kettle on for a nice cup of tea.
I guess what Im trying to say is yeah it might be a crap thing to do, but some people really have over reacted, and kudos to those who feel its thier moral duty to help out, persoanly I wont be, not in game no where near the area in question and when it comes down to it, I have better things to do.
Sorry for sounding cold or uncareing and I have tried not to mention the whole C word here, but Ive lost loved ones to it, I might well lose more in the years to come. that might make me a bad person in some peoples eyes but what are we really. Names on a gaming forum, noone here is ever going to met me in RL, noone knows my real name, I do somtimes give away my age and the fact I have a better half but past that noone knows me as in the chap typing this spill, and I dont know any of you, which Im fine with.
I dont know the chap in question I can understand the whys and why nots but will it matter this time next week or after we get the news he has passed, and I do hope he gets to enjoy all the time he has.
The world moves on, we tend to move on with it, or at least I do.