I must admit I don't begin to "fully understand" Elite PvP...coming as I do froma background in Flight Sims etc where Combat is an organic part of a game...rather than a "I'm going off to blow someone up...yay...done that! I'll go back to playing the game" diversion for bored players...
But feel free to explain to me the difference between...
Attack a Player...destroy them...you win!
Attack a player...they escape/evade...you win!
Attack a player...they Combat Log...you win!
Apart from the petty satisfaction of destroying someone who probably didn't want (or deserve in the sense of not being wanted/not pledged to a Power/not carrying cargo) to get into Combat with you anyway...what's the difference?
The difference is that combat logging...
-Negates the effect of rebuy
-Negates the effect of any lost missions, explo data, or bounty claims
-Negates the potential psychological effect of having your ship destroyed
-Betrays a lack of integrity and sportsmanship
As for your want and deserve statement, "want" and "deserve" have nothing to do with it. When you elect to play in Open you accept that you may be acted upon by other players, for better or for worse.
Personally, I just don't like cheating.
lol - Marra is better at brevity than I
