"We shouldn't really have to say "please give us an update that isn't balance breaking, tedious, and/or pointless"."
If you do say that, then no wonder you don't get any changes. Kinda hard to work out what to do, even if it were not a truism that there'd be other people NOT thinking it balance breaking, tedious or pointless.
Go argue if having a PvP mode to run as, same thing as Solo,PG and Open, but where the block list doesn't work and everyone is treated like "friends" so that everyone gets instanced together a lot more often. This won't affect anyone in the other modes, so maybe if this were laid down as a first step, changes in the rules could be enacted. Such as no C&P or a % increase on payouts for non combat work, or a run on region servers so as to fit a lot more people on the same instance.
Or if you just want to take your ships in to CQC, then stop complaining and push for that, so that FD hears only one voice from the PvPers.
As it is, every single one of you ignores, to a vast extent, the ideas of others, so when FD hear a thousand different voices clamouring for their personal ideas, or no ideas at all ("Don't make it pointless!!!"), at least FD can propose *A* change on the PvP forums or the hot topic discussion threads.
As it is, most PvPers sound like they're saying "Brexit means Brexit", they just didn't mean "Default exit, no special deals". Never SAID so, and everyone had a different idea what they needed. Any wonder that, like PvP, has been a permanent state of criticism and complaint?
Congratulations. In all my time at the forums I have never seen a post of reasonable size that manages such a level of complete and utter incoherence.