Yup this is true so we discuss what info the ADS honk reveals to keep as many happy as possible I think most would be happy with less info as long as they can use some skill to work out what is what.
No, this isn't a game built by committee, if it was PvP would be banned for starters, PowerPlay would never have got off the group, and Engineering would be more of a mess.
You asked for a compromise but how many compromises are you willing to allow. Just because someone might want hollow circles and someone else wants the full system map, why should one lose out to another. Come on you are trying to broker the peace here or something, you have to appease everyone