"Some people... just want to watch the world burn..."
It's these reasons why my friends and arguably myself, get scared into Solo and Private Groups then those gankers complain Solo and PG players are ruining the game, yet, they're the ones camping people stuck in Sidewinders, sadly, the fact of the matter is, people are horrible, and you'll have to go to Solo to do your thing in peace if you want to do it at all if Open is unbearable.
FD Provided us with 3 playstyles to play the way people want, even if playing in Solo hurts your "Integrity" if Open is too much, then Solo or PG is your only other option, or not at all, people will poke, point, and laugh at you for not flying in Open, but all I have to say to them "Imagine judging people negatively because they play slightly different to you because they enjoy the game that way".
If you want to stay in open, well, fly carefully and avoid the HUBs e.g. Founder Worlds, Starting Systems, CG Areas, Undermining Systems, and Engineers to name a few to the best of your ability, or taxi in a Hauler and transfer, the options are there, it's up to you to pick them.