Did he call you at home? Send an e-mail to your private address? Look up your IP address and figure your ISP out?
And did he contact you out of the blue? Or did you spam the bot with non-compliant commands that caused it to give out error messages on the server side?
Well he looked me up on discord because we'd never had a conversation before based on about 5 input commands I entered over the space of about 10 minutes... if that's considered spamming in EDR then he must have his work cut out messaging nearly every user.
Also the errors were probably generated because I got the syntax wrong maybe one or two times... obviously hax.