One of the "griefers" i know is a 911 operator, i would say he has nerves of steel and is intelligent
You just cant judge people based on what they do in a video game
Had to chime in here, as your attitude is so annoying. So the guy is a 911 operator. And? I am not American for starters, so it means nothing to me. Profession is irrelevant.
It doesn't excuse behaving like a brain dead griefer. He might not be brain dead in real life, according to you, in which case he should take a look in the mirror. Or do you think its admirable ganking inexperienced players who have little chance as they are getting into the game? To me, that kind of behaviour demonstrates limited mental capacity when someone takes pleasure from it. Its the kind of thing I used to do on WoW when I was about 22.
The other reason your attitude is annoying is that it is typical of many gamers in online multiplayer games. They think because they are anonymous and unaccountable, it excuses them behaviour they would not dare apply to real life. You are right in saying you cannot JUST judge someone from how they act in a game, but if that is all we have to go off, then sorry but you shouldn't be surprised if people take a dim view. After all, lets be fair, if he sits there smirking to himself while he blows away sidewinders at farseer, how smart can he really be?
I mean fine, in open, the devs have made it possible to act that way. All good. I mean, if you want to use the boundaries of a game to act like a because you can't in real life, then knock yourself out. Just don't make out its all nice or that other people should accept it any more than they would in real life. Its still just as anger inducing when someone tries to be an arsehole in a game as it is in real life. Therefore the negative consequences are also similar. Whether you like it or not.
Your mate could be the Dalai Lama, but if he is going round ganking fresh commanders at a known early progress zone, then I am sorry chief, but he is lacking moral fibre.