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I don't believe in punishing children overly, not to mention psychological torture.
And generally raising a child is so extremely responsible task,
it makes dancing waltz on a mine field feel like something banal, a piece of cake.

The awareness of the fact that your EVERY word, gesture, emotion can and will impact the future of your child
in ways you don't have a chance to predict unless you use 150% of your brain on focusing on reading child's feedback to your every action
to identify mis-/over- interpretations and apply corrections/ additional explanations ALL THE TIME you are interacting with your child is...

Well, it's pretty serious task if you care about the "outcome".

I mean if you love your child, naturally.
 
And generally raising a child is so extremely responsible task,
it makes dancing waltz on a mine field feel like something banal, a piece of cake.

The awareness of the fact that your EVERY word, gesture, emotion can and will impact the future of your child
in ways you don't have a chance to predict unless you use 150% of your brain on focusing on reading child's feedback to your every action
to identify mis-/over- interpretations and apply corrections/ additional explanations ALL THE TIME you are interacting with your child is...

Well, it's pretty serious task if you care about the "outcome".

I mean if you love your child, naturally.
Nah, children are pets you can't eat.

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And generally raising a child is so extremely responsible task,
it makes dancing waltz on a mine field feel like something banal, a piece of cake.

The awareness of the fact that your EVERY word, gesture, emotion can and will impact the future of your child
in ways you don't have a chance to predict unless you use 150% of your brain on focusing on reading child's feedback to your every action
to identify mis-/over- interpretations and apply corrections/ additional explanations ALL THE TIME you are interacting with your child is...

Well, it's pretty serious task if you care about the "outcome".

I mean if you love your child, naturally.
I think you overthink some things.

Yes kids need our guidance and protection but mostly they come out quite right.

I mean except from pattern recognition in crap planetary tech systems we are evolutionary made for raising kids....
 
Spongebob is my litmus test for people. The ones that don't like it are not worth engaging.
This is me dressed as spongebob at one of our fancy dress parties in the early noughties.

(I've blurred out my brother who is the furious looking smurf)

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I think you overthink some things.

Yes kids need our guidance and protection but mostly they come out quite right.

I mean except from pattern recognition in crap planetary tech systems we are evolutionary made for raising kids....
I guess it depends on

how many grave mistakes your parents made while they were raising you
and
how well could you identify the link netween those specific fails and some of perks/flaws of your psyche after you left your home.

If you had your share of
"this part of inherited code I need to delete, and this is exaggerated, this can stay, it's useful and positive" sorting,
you tend to be VERY careful with things you say to your kid and how you answer his questions to keep the balance between protecting him and his childhood and exposing to him how the "adult" world is mean and ugly sometimes.
 
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